摩登家庭第四季

That's the funny thing about marriage, you fall in love with this extraordinary person, and over time they begin to seem ordinary.There are certain queer times and occasions in this strange, mixed affair we call life. when a man takes this whole universe for a vast practical joke. Though the wit thereof he but dimly discerns. And more than suspects that the joke is nobody's expense but his own.She was always doing crazy stuff like this going out of her way to take care of us.I coughed on the phone once and she overnighted me soup. When I wanted to learn how to ski, she knit me a sweater.When I wanted to be a marine biologist, she knit me a sweater with a whale on it.This is a lighter. It belonged to my favorite actor, Paul Newman. One day, he came into the restaurant where I was waitressing and accidentally left it behind.For the first time in my life, I did something I wasn't supposed to and slipped it into my pocket.One of the customers saw and said, "don't worry, your secret's safe with me."That customer turned out to be the love of my life, your grandfather.So my Alex, who I love so dearly, who's probably too much like me for her own good. Every once in a while, don't be afraid to break the rules.You never know what can happen.

Alex收到奶奶的遗物是一个打火机，一开始她百思不得其解。

她和爷爷一起看相片，她看到一张照片里奶奶笑得很开心。

爷爷回忆道：是啊，当时我们喝得烂醉，那是去年的国庆节，你奶奶最喜欢的节日。

普林普顿家搞了烧烤，你奶奶和我喝姜汁玛格丽特喝多了，我们就回家打了个盹，结果错过了那晚的烟花表演。

她头一回错过，她当时特别生气，我为了补偿她，当天晚些时候特意为她办了一场烟火表演，虽然只是在后院用弓弹发射荧光棒而已。

爷爷提醒Alex，奶奶的信还没有被打开：“This is a lighter. It belonged to my favorite actor, Paul Newman. One day, he came into the restaurant where I was waitressing and accidentally left it behind. For the first time in my life, I did something I wasn't supposed to and slipped it into my pocket. One of the customers saw and said, 'don't worry. Your secret's safe with me.' That customer turned out to be the love of my life, your grandfather. So, my Alex, who I love so dearly, who is probably too much like me for her own good, every once in a while, don't be afraid to break the rules. You never know what can happen.”打火机是她偶像留下的东西，是她与此生挚爱的定情之物，是点燃她最爱的烟花秀的导引，是她许多爱恋与美好回忆的载体。

打火机本身是不那么具有收藏价值的东西，因为爱才被赋予特别的意义。

死物再稀奇，譬如钻石，也只是一颗石头而已。

一季的结束，结尾特别美好，绚烂的烟花犹如每次过年那种普天同庆的喜庆，就如同生命中每一次灿烂的美好，那么的刻骨铭心，那么的具有无与伦比的意思，像是登台演出，像是被所有人羡慕眼光所笼罩的那一刻，而跟那一样美丽的，最后一刻的黄昏和摇椅，完美的夏日，一切都是那么美好，那么的沁人心脾，好想生活在那里，过不完的夏天，漫长的海岸线，人烟稀少的住宅。

不断寻找的，努力的，发现的，一切还是无法打破生活的梗长，那种望不到头的日月，那些无尽的烦忧，那些无法使我充满希望的度过接下来的几十年。

一生中纠结的事有很多，缺少金钱，不够完美的容貌，得不到情人的全身心投入，或是失去本来所拥有的，有的不多失去的也不少，到了一定的年龄，有些事情身不由己。

不停的在想很多事情，却也突然明白，我要的努力，是在能力范畴之内的，其余的许多东西，可能真的不需要过多的苛求与索取，要想明白这些，放弃许多事情，真的是很不容易，不要把太多的事情放在眼里，真的很难，但可能这就是意思吧，一切都没有意思，活在其他的介质里，想要摆脱一切，真的是很难呢

真的觉得这部剧很温馨很有爱 还记得看第一部的时候Lily还是刚领养回来 现在已经那么大了 里面的她好可爱＞＜ 还有热情奔放的Gloria 浓浓的西班牙语口语的英语 还有Alex他们三姐弟 哈哈哈 有个兄弟姐妹吵吵架还是蛮欢乐的 好基友cam&mitchell也好有爱 Gloria's new born baby Jeo 怎么可以那么乖 都不乱哭 好可爱啊！！

还有Manny 整天把自己弄的跟个小大人一样 哈哈哈 Jay &Phill就是典型家庭好男人 爱妻子儿女 努力工作 当然经常也很无奈 哈哈哈 还有好妈妈Clair 总之这部剧还蛮能反应现代家庭的各种温馨小事和烦恼 对于外国家庭这种父母和儿女的相处方式真的觉得很赞耶！

Modern family S4E2Never be afraid to reach for the stars,because even if you fall, you'll always be wearing a parent-chute(parachute)Success is 1% inspiration ,98%perspiration,and 2% attention to detail.S4E3I've always seen life like a serious of doors.sometimes you get to choose the door you go through, sometimes you don't get that choice. But you still gotta walk through . So you can either go kicking and screaming... Or walk through with your head held high .S4E4"I am mad at you because you didn't say anything.""Cause I didn't want to get yelled at.""Well too bad. When you married to me, you're going to get yelled at many times. And you're tough enough to take it. That's what I love about our marriage . We can say whatever we want , but the next day we're still there.＂＂ that's what I like it, too."The minute I stopped caring what other people thought and stared doing what I wanted to do , is the minute I finally feel ...Free!E4S6I'm terrified of motorcycles, but sometimes you have to do things to show the world you're still a man. Oh, she's just sarcastic on the outside . Inside , she's just a fragile little girl. If she wants to get her heart broken by a gay guy, she can do so when she's 18 or 19 and can drink her way through it. He really oughta run things through his head first.What's your return policy?You return, I call the police .In Colombia , if you snoop around the wrong box, you might end up inside that box. S4E7 Making a child is the easy part . The hard part is everything that comes after . Keeping them safe... Making sacrifices for them... And standing by them , even when they let you down .S4E10This's the funny thing about marriage. You fall in love with this...extraordinary person, and over time , they begin to seem ordinary.Sometimes I don't understand people , they do crazy things for the dumbest reasons. They convince themselves it'll all work out...despite all the evidence to the contrary.S4E11New Years is so weird ,the way it makes you think about time. I think that's why people put so much pressure on themselves to have fun. I mean I guess I sorta get it. S4E12There's all kinds of milestones in life, the kind you expect to live through--the first kiss, birthdays, graduations. If you're lucky, a wedding or two, or even a new addition to the family. Then there's the kind you never dreamed you'd get to live through again. And that's the best kind of all.S4E17Raising a kid is like sending a rocket ship to the moon. You spend the early years in constant contact, and then one day, around the teenage years, they go around the dark side and they're gone . All you can do is wait for that faint signal that says they're coming back.Marriage is a promise. It says to the world that you share a love and a commitment to each other that will only grow deeper as the years go by . Never be afraid to go after a girl who's out of your league.S4E18My kids are helpless, but maybe that's okay. Because years from now when they have their own houses, they'll call me on their hologram phones and say,"help me , dad . You're my only hope." When it comes to raising kids, you get what you give.There are certain queer times and occasions in this strange , mixed after we call life... When a man takes this whole universe for a vast practical joke... Though the wit thereof he but dimly discerns... And more than suspect that the joke is at nobody's expense but his own. S4E20Oh . Dumpy , I can play you like a ukulele, cause you're small and dainty. We all weave a web of lies. Some we tell to try to help the ones we love. Some we tell to try to fool ourselves . And some we tell because , when you're out of bullets and staring down the barrel of a Kalashnikov , the only weapon you've got left I'd guile .E4S22Plus, this is one of the many benefits of being gay . We can be friends with our exes without all the petty jealousy straight people go through .What qualifies someone as a hero? Obviously, a hero has to be someone we respect. A person we look up to. A person who is generous of spirit. Who's willing to grow and learn. Maybe it's the person you love most in the world or the guy who makes the most out of life, no matter what anyone thinks. For me though, the hero in my family is my family. Because of who we are together .

摩登家庭，爱的教程。

第4季第19集，关键词：包容。

包容，真的是个老生常谈又常说常新的话题。

在一个有爱的家庭里，在一个有爱的关系里，包容常会被人提起却又常会被人忽略。

每个人都有每个人独特的成长环境和成长经历，也就必然导致了每个人都有着自己的所得和所失，满足和遗憾。

Lily渴望减少自己和两个爸爸的差异性，不愿意承认自己是越南人，想让自己的身份定位在同性恋，可Cam和Mitch希望她有无限的可能性，不要早早的给自己限定并抵制自己原生的身份，对Gloria来说，对祖国和来处的认同却是非常非常重要。

几个人在餐厅，越是为了强调自己的包容性，似乎越是巧合的得罪了各个不同身份认同的人。

在医院里，Phil和Clair自以为分别遇到了自己的教育理念下可能出现的孩子成长的负面性，马上给孩子打电话想让他们避免出现这种情况，孩子们误解他们是孩子气爆发让他们成熟一点。

这部剧的底色何尝不是最大程度的在强调包容，当我们承认自己的差异性，承认和爱的人之间存在的差异性，愿意接受自己的不完美并让自己圆满，接受爱的人的不完美并等待他/她的圆满，这又何尝不是包容的底色。

在《摩登家庭》S4E02中，Pill送给女儿Haley这本《Pill’s-osophy》一一Pill自己总结出来的人生道理，都是一些蛮好笑的小段子，整理出里大家一起笑一笑。

1. Always look people in the eye, even if they’re blind. Just say, “I’m looking you in the eye.”永远直视对方的双眼，哪怕对方是盲人。

2. If you get pulled over for speeding, tell the policeman your spouse has diarrhea.如果你因超速被拦住，告诉警察你同伴有拉肚之急。

Spouse n. 配偶Diarrhea n. 腹泻3. You only get one chance at a first impression.I suggest Julia Child, because it’s easy to do. “Save the giblets.”第一印象一旦立下就无法改变。

我建议模仿厨神茱莉亚，因为那很简单。

“留着内脏别扔。

”Giblet n. （禽类的）内脏杂碎（Jusnote：Who can get two chances at a first impression?）4. The most amazing things that can happen to a human will happen to you, if you lower your expectations. 作为人来说可以遇到的最美妙的事情也会发生在你身上，只要你降低一点期望。

（Jusnote：这句确实还蛮有用，降低一点自己的期望，生活处处是惊喜。

）5. Dancing until your feet hurt; Sing until your lungs hurt; Act until you’re William hurt.舞到jio痛；唱到肺痛；演到莎士比亚附体，心痛无比。

（Jusnote：这句也不错，尽情。

）6. Take a lesson from parakeets. If you’re ever feeling lonely, just eat in front of a mirror.要有鹦鹉学舌的精神，如果你感到孤单，就在镜子前吃饭吧。

Parakeet n. 长尾小鹦鹉（Jusnote：只知道parrot，不知道parakeet。

）7. Never be afraid to reach for the stars, because even if you fall, you’ll always be wearing a parent-chute™.永远不要害怕去摘星星，因为就算你跌下来，你永远有“父母牌”降落伞防身。

©: Alt+Ctrl+C®: Alt+Ctrl+R™: Alt+Ctrl+T8. Marry someone who looks sexy while disappointed.结婚要找看起来性感和失望并存的人。

9. Older black ladies make the best iced tea.年老的黑人女性做的冰茶最好喝。

10. Success is 1% inspiration, 98% perspiration, and 2% attention to detail.成功来自于1%的灵感，98%的努力，以及2%对细节的注意。

Inspiration n. 灵感Perspiration n. 汗水11. You can tell a lot a about a person from his biography.通过一个人的自传，你可以很好地了解他。

Biography n. 传记，档案，个人简介12. Watch a sunrise at least once a day.一天至少看一次日出。

13. If you love something, set it free. Unless it’s a tiger.如果你爱着什么，就给他自由。

除非那是只老虎。

14. If you’re even in jam, a crayon scrunched up under your nose, makes a good pretend mustache.如果你碰到塞车，两嘴嘟起，在鼻子下面夹一支蜡笔，就是一撇优秀的假胡子。

Crayon n. 蜡笔Scrunch vt. 使弯曲Mustache n. 胡子15. When life gives you lemonade, make lemons.Life will be all like, “What?”生活给了你甜甜的柠檬水，你就把它变成酸酸的柠檬。

生活就会大吃一惊说，“你搞毛啊？

”原话是：生活给了你柠檬，你就把它变成柠檬水，意指苦中做乐。

（Jusnote：Pill真的很无聊。

）Pill真的好可爱啊。

希望我也可以永远这样乐观。

开心

摩登家庭，爱的教程。

第4季第24集，关键词：特殊的纽带。

作为这一季最后一集，压轴大戏真的容易让人瞬间飙泪。

Phil的妈妈去世了，却留给他一封非常特别的遗嘱，就是希望自己儿子牵线，把她认为一位美丽善良靠谱的老太太介绍给Phil的爸爸。

活着的时候就深切的爱，离世的时候让爱的人好好活着，大概爱的本意就全部融合在这样的倾诉和安排中了。

我们在这个世界上活着的时间并不长，每一天都本应该并值得在珍惜中度过。

量子物理的世界里，最微观层面能观测到的只有运动的夸克，运动产生的能量，其中的构成是“空”的；能观测到的电子是云的状态，无法标识，换言之它们是一模一样的。

完全的一模一样很可能是虚拟的。

如果我们接受这种假说，我们的世界真的可能只是一场完全虚拟的画面。

你唯一能感受到真实的，只能是自己的经历和体验，如果自己对自己的这部分本心都不尊重而是随波逐流的话，那么当你离开的时候可是真的就像是从未来过这个世界一样了。

家中的老二常常是懂事也被关注最少得那个孩子，东方西方概莫能外。

Alex的处境也差不多，所以也可能是拒绝体验和经历最多的孩子。

奶奶留给她一个打火机，大家都不知道这到底代表了什么。

直到最后我们才明白，打火机正是奶奶爱的起点、爱的见证、爱的象征、爱的体验。

奶奶是一个一辈子都认真爱经历爱实践爱的人，她和自己最爱的人相识就是通过这个打火机来的。

奶奶也把这份爱传递给了最像她的这个孙女，“我最爱的ALEX，可能你太像我了，虽然这也挺好，但偶尔的，不要害怕打破常规，你永远不知道会发生什么好事”。

1：杰的寿宴，要增添一个宝宝了！

时间转眼即逝～2：送海莉上大学，打动我了（我以后要送孩子上大学和看ta大学毕业，弥补我自身的遗憾）杰和歌去上育儿班？

为啥啊？

杰的子孙加起来都多少，一大家子人！

卡米认识了幼稚园男孩的一对拉妇妇。

5：克莱尔最喜欢的万圣节7：海莉被捕了，西方喝酒的年龄是多少？

上了大学还不能喝？

西方这一点倒是比我想得严格……海莉上大学六个礼拜就被退学了……8：确实快到2025年了😭9：姐妹互相拍糗照，海莉连犯罪照都拍的很好看（max卡洛琳？

）Alex赔了手机卡米不准砍树，爬上树（怦然心动？

）10：哥伦比亚大鹦鹉的歌声不敢恭维11：午夜敲响，吃下12颗葡萄许下愿望，这个传统我知道！

（西班牙？

）卢克都会带女孩回家了，大姐二姐意识到了不对，开始当妈了……曼迪的赞美之词溢于言表wow经典名场面每个人都过上了美满的新年除夕夜，除了克莱尔哈哈哈12：曼迪生日，得到香吻，却被“惊喜”糗到咯～公开社死，新成员弟弟降生，同一天生日！

莉莉三次被卡爸误伤海莉知道自己还是宝贝大女儿走一波回忆杀集锦，哭了T﹏T13：莉莉的毒舌属性开始觉醒杰开始讨好比他小的岳母，变成菲尔了歌洛莉亚的妈妈妹妹，真不愧是一家人菲尔想帮忙解决三个孩子的问题，越帮越忙，卢克承受并解决了一切！

14：卢克的音乐天赋，Alex的唯物主义动摇了，真如神婆预言的骑士邂逅15：又是情人节，克莱尔心律不齐昏倒……杰担心儿子女儿，上辈子的情人是吧～16：乔被莉莉用胶水贴上假发，太可爱啦，但是莉莉这样的行为成长很危险啊……一切又是偷吃蛋糕的卢克小可爱承受？

不，这次是杰，哈哈哈亲爹背锅最合适17：菲尔帮卢克约到女孩，没想到对方也是妈妈帮忙，菲尔德的桃花开了？

曼迪爱上家中保姆，艺术造诣有点脱轨了18：卡和克莱尔装修房子后院，米奇尔向卢克学手球，杰和歌洛莉亚分别带娃，菲尔教女儿们如何维修家里设备，结果也要向爸爸求教20：房产中介的定制房哈哈哈曼迪亲爹要娶的女人无比羡慕歌洛莉亚的女神姿态～21：牙仙子海莉太辣了，粉色 ˗ˋˏᰔᩚˎˊ˗23：全家开房车海岸线旅行24：菲尔的妈妈去世，留给Alex一个打火机，太感人了（不要害怕打破常规，命运自有安排）

老友记 之外最喜欢的喜剧，每一集除了笑点之外都会让人有所感动，这一季最搞笑的镜头就是致敬教父那一段，看了好几遍，这部剧最叫人赞叹的是2点 1是荤段子、下三路的笑话少到可以忽略不计，有也都是很高级不直接的段子，要知道这类段子在美式喜剧里占的比重相当之大，这也是为什么 现在对破产姐妹的好感度一直下降，尤其是奥列格和苏菲这对couple，有时候简直想跳过他们的部分。

2是做为 喜剧，竟然不用罐头笑声，真的太赞了，这是对自己的剧本多么有信心啊

摩登家庭，爱的教程。

第4季第22集，关键词：真正的英雄。

这一集再次贡献金句，“什么样的人才有资格被称为英雄，显然，英雄必须是我们尊敬的人，我们敬仰的人，心胸宽广的人，愿意成长与学习的人，也许是这世界上你最爱的人，或是尽力享受生活的人。

不管别人怎么想，不过对我来说，我家里的英雄就是我的家人，我们在一起才是真英雄”。

这一集可是太值得回味了。

Cam一家偶遇了Mitch的前男友Teddy，Cam觉得自己很大度，积极回应参加Teddy组织的滑冰募捐活动。

当他们到了那里，Cam才发现全家人原来都被邀请过来了，而且家里每个人都是那么喜欢Teddy，Cam的drama queen体质全面爆发，醋劲儿翻飞。

虽然Mitch不情不愿，但是还是装作自己的意思，要求家里的成员都和Teddy保持距离，当然最后也不能如愿……Jay想让Claire实现自己重新回归职场的梦想，让她在自己公司接管自己的工作。

Claire害怕自己会让Jay失望，所以拒绝了。

可是最后她才知道，Jay每次的失望背后更多的是担心Claire不快乐。

我们的世界本来就是一个错配的世界，错配的意思是你很难在同一个时间内让所有人都满意，但是你可以做一个英雄，做一个勇敢强大的人，去包容去成长去学习去爱去享受，去找到你真正最爱的人，去做你真正最爱的事，这个人间值得。